Child Safety In The Home

Safety While Your Child’s Home Alone
Author: Keith Hutson
SAFETY WHILE YOUR CHILD’S ALONE
Working parents- and that’s the majority of American families today- share the anxiety, frustration, and even fear involved in leaving children “on their own” when school lets out, child care arrangements with neighbors and relatives break down, or there simply are not any alternatives.
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
* Make sure your children are ready to care for themselves.
* Teach them basic safety rules.
* Know where your kids are, what they are doing, and who they are with.
ARE THEY READY? CAN YOUR CHILDREN-
1. Be trusted to go straight home after school?
2. Easily use the telephone, locks, and kitchen appliances?
3. Follow rules and instructions well?
4. Handle unexpected situations without panicking?
5. Stay home alone without being afraid?
6. Make sure your children feel comfortable coming to you, especially if someone is violating them. Making time to have dinner with your family each evening is an ideal time to learn what’s going on with your kids. If they don’t come right out and tell you it’s possible you’ll detect a problem that you can discuss with them away from others in the family.
Talk it over with them, and listen to their worries and ideas. Work out rules on having friends over, household chores, homework, and television. Remember, staying at home alone can build a child’s self esteem, sense of responsibility, and practical skills.
TEACH YOUR “HOME ALONE” CHILDREN
1. How to call 9-1-1 or your area’s emergency number, or call the operator?
2. How to give directions to your house in case of an emergency?
3. To check in with you or a neighbor immediately after arriving home.
4. To never accept gifts or rides from people they don’t know well. (And you approve of)
5. How to use the door, windows, locks and the alarm system if you have one?
6. To never let anyone into the home without asking your permission.
7. To never let a caller at the door or on the phone know they are alone.
8. To carry a house key with them in a safe place (inside a shirt pocket or sock)-do not leave it under a mat or on a ledge.
9. How to escape in case of fire?
10. To not go into the house or apartment if things do not look right- a broken window, ripped screen, or opened door.
11. To let you know about anything that frightens them or makes them feel uncomfortable.
Good luck and be safe!
Frequently Asked Questions
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QUESTION:
Buying child home safety equipment..?
I need to now start buying safety equipment for my home, like stair gates, plug socket protectors, fire guards etc.. which are all quite expensive. I was wondering if there is any help towards getting these as im a single parent on a very low income.i was made redundant whilst on maternity leave and my husband died before baby was born. i have had the sure start maternity grant but the £500 was spent on a cot, clothes, nappies, pram etc..
if anyone knows of any schemes out there to help provide these will be great… else its walking around those charity shops in hope to find something..
*reply to proud* do you have children? if so you should understand that all these things add up.. a stair gate may only be £30 but you need 2 for top and bottom of the stairs.. fire guard..another £30+.. then u need plug, door and corner protectors, cabinet locks for under sinks etc.. all adds up. you may be fortunate enough to say it doesnt cost alot.. but having to save up for all these things means that only my baby eats that week-
ANSWER:
In my area there is a project that’s council run and founded (I live in quite a deprived area), they actually contacted me and came to fit cupboard catches and stair gate etc. So if I were you I’d phone your local council and ask them as they provide these services in deprived areas because of the high infant mortality and accident rates.Oh or failing that you could join Freecycle on yahoo groups and ask for free safety equipment or look out for it.
Good luck.
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QUESTION:
need ideas for child safety in home for 9 yr old?
I have a 9 yr old with severe ADHD and other medical problems. He is now getting to the porint to where he can’t trusted safety wise for he has done things that would cause harm to others. I need any ideas on how to child proof my home so others can be safe and him. He can take things off and part if he wants so i’m all out of ideas. If you can think of anything i would greatly appreicate it.-
ANSWER:
I don’t think you can babyproof for a 9-year-old, as they can get around it just as an adult can. What you can do is supervise very closely to keep him and others safe. Playing by yourself is a privilege you have to earn by playing safely. If you have other children and so physically can’t always be in the room where he is, or if he’s getting in danger in the night when everyone else is asleep, consider putting video baby monitors to keep track of what he’s doing when you’re in another room.Beyond that, I’d consider some counseling so you can get ideas tailored both to the details of his medical situation and the specific dangerous things he’s doing. If he’s really a danger to himself and others, you’re beyond what any two-paragraph answer here will be able to effectively help with. Ultimately, you’re going to have to find an effective disciplinary strategy so he starts to learn appropriate and safe behavior.
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QUESTION:
Can you please take part in my child and home safety survey?
Hello Parents out there,I am hoping you can help me out…
I am looking for parents with children ages 2-6 who would be willing to take a short survey. The survey, entitled the Home Environment & Safety Survey (HESS) is designed to gather more information about the safety of the homes of children ages 2-6, and the frequency in which children suffer in-home injuries. On average the survey takes about 10 minutes to complete.
I am administering this survey as part of a class project for research course in the Department of Community Health at Brown University. Your participation is completely voluntary and you have the right to discontinue participation at any time. All of the data will be reported in summary statistical form only and will not be connected with your name in any way.
If you would like to take the survey, please click the link below
https://pph-illume.chcr.brown.edu/Collector/Survey.ashx?Name=Tracy_Jackson
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ANSWER:
if I participate, do I get free bubble wrap for the life of my child?
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QUESTION:
How do I safety-proof a home/apartment for a child above 5?
I am putting together a school report (Master’s level). I need the communities thoughts on dangers in the home that children 5 and above face. Mom’s, Dad’s, Aunt’s, Uncle’s, Friends, please fee free to respond. The best answer will be voted in 3 days. Thanks so very much!! Smiles….-
ANSWER:
I have 5 children,ages 12,8,6,4 and 3.Here is how I safety-proof my home (I’m the only parent,their father left some time ago) for them.I work and they are usually alone at home,especially if the 12yo is somewhere with her friends and the younger brothers and sisters are alone.So,I have to be sure everything is OK.The main is that you can’t safety-proof your house enough for even the smartest child.so,you have to teach them how to take care of themselves if something happens and how to avoid something happening.
- The bathroom is never being locked but also nobody uninvited doesn’t enter while anyone is there
- All the children have been taught how to work with computer and TV,so they don’t mess it up
- The electric appliances are being kept away from wall-plugs after usage.That is required from my children too,if they are washing their clothes or iron them
- The food I leave them for lunch has to be only warmed up,even the 4yo knows how to do it.they have a timer,so they don’t forget to take the food away from the oven when ready.they all know how to make sandwiches,so they eat if the 12yo or the 8yo aren’t there to help with warmng the lunch or if there is no electricity
- When I go to work,I lock the door – whe they go out,they lock the house door too.The 12yo,8yo and 6yo have keys from the home door.The other don’t need them yet.
- The 12yo and 8yo have their own cellphones and all the others have these phones which select certain numbers.They also have a list of important numbers and know what to do in case of fire or an earthquake and anything like that.
- They know why and in which cases they shouldn’t answer the home-door
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QUESTION:
does child social services do an annual review and safety check of your home each year in alberta?
I have couple of cute children in my home that are under child social services act. Was wondering if the social workers do an annual review and safety check of your home each year. If this is required of the worker and home.-
ANSWER:
yes, it does.
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QUESTION:
child safety locks for home?
I have an upstairs apartment and my entrance is downstairs and at the top of the stairs we have another door but the door doesn’t have any sort of lock on it. The down stairs door is the type that unlocks when you pull the handle. I have a 3 year old and a very mobile 9 month old. The door knob on the upstairs door is just the type you pull down on to open it instead of a regular knob. What are the type of locks that you see in nursing homes? The ones that go on both sides of the top of the door and you can lock it from either side and unlock it from either side?
There is no place to put a baby gate.-
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QUESTION:
How Do I Protect My Home ? [Serious Question]?
I Have Just Moved Into A New Neighborhood And For The Past Two Months, Someone Has Been Vandalizing Our Home. I Put In New Sod In The Front Lawn, And Every Now And Then, I would find a couple pieces flipped over or just relocated in the middle of my driveway. Also, My Dad’s Car Was Tampered With And Everything Inside The Car Was Thrown Out. So Far, We Have Filed Two Police Reports But It Hasnt Helped In Anyway. Some Nights, My Dad And I Would Take Turns Keeping Watch. We Have Some Suspicious People On The Block Who We Think Did It But We Dont Have Evidents. At Night, My Dad Fears That Someone Will Break In And Rob Us. We Have Considered Brinks Security System [Since The Old Owner Had It Installed] And Security Camera’s But The Price Is Out Of Question. Because Most Of Them Time, There Are Children At Home, Safety Is A Big Concern But It Has To Fit Our Budget. Are There Any Low Cost Ways To Protect Your Home From Intruders So You Can Leave The House Knowing Your Family Is Safe At Home.-
ANSWER:
go to shelter and get a huge ass outside pitbull and
by adt sercuity system itz prety cheap
and get fake cameras like ones that look like there real and there not so it wil scare da ppl
there like 20 buckz each
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QUESTION:
questions about getting an exterminator with child in home.?
We have a flea problem bad. We are having an exterminator come on Saturday. We have a 10 month old. I need tips and advice from those of you who have used an exterminator on safety for my child when we come back to the house. I am nervous about this, but it needs to be done.-
ANSWER:
very doubtful your guy will “flea bomb” He will use either an aerosol floor treatment or a liquid treatment for the floor. Sure he will use proper products for the job that are labeled to be used around the house that has children. Don’t reoccupy the area till product has dried, depending on what was used may be 15 minutes or may be a number of hours. Get the toys off of the floor so he may treat as much floor area, where the fleas will be, as possible. After your return vacuum vacuum vacuum. I have never had an after treatment issue to deal with.
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